The other day, I received an email from one of my connections. The email is of the kind we all know:
"Hanna is missing - please forward to all your friends"
Unlike most of such emails and stories, this one was based on a true story. Only, time was long past due.
The background is a teenage girl, leaving her family. She decided she needed some time off, I guess. Not uncommon for teenagers, but a heavy burden on the parents. The parents go to the police, and asks around if anyone knows where she might be hiding. Expecting the worst, I would guess.
Thanks to the media coverage, she is found (actually, she turns herself in) after a couple of days. She is fine, just need a few days off.
So - that is the background. The story is similar to many. And they tend to create email campaigns that runs for years.
What amazes me is that people never learn. Instead of taking 10 seconds of their own time to check the reality and necessity of the story, they hit the FORWARD button and send to any and all connections. Some may have the minimum of decency to add a note like
"I hope it is OK that I forward this to you"
Well, yes it is. IF - and only IF you did a quality control. If you did spend those 10 seconds to check if this is hoax, or a true story. Or as in this case - a closed case!
All I had to do was type (actually, I am lazy, so I cut'n'pasted) the name of the poor girl into Google. And I get instant response. The girl is found. Long time ago. She is fine. No need to worry. No need to spend any more time on this case.
I urge you (you know who you are) to actually care a little bit about your connections, and a lot about the family and the persons involved in such stories the next time you choose to forward it. Take 10 seconds - or if necessary - 10 minutes - to check the story.
If not for the sake of your network - for the sake of the poor people involved.
Imagine it is you in the story. And 5 years down the line, you get the email, where people asking for your help to find you. And this goes on and on and on. Haunts you for your life.
I will not publish her name here. I know you understand my sentiment.
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